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Sports provides backup for parents, children when started young

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2 weeks ago

March 17, 2023

Youth team sports can fill the gaps for learning life skills and reinforce what's being taught at home.

Sports are a huge part of the multi-faceted culture of Mississippians. Drive through a neighborhood and you'll see a number of college football flags. If you're at a coffee shop, you're more than likely going to overhear someone say, “Hail State,” or, “You catch the Rebs this weekend?” or a proud parent will be boasting about how well their kid performed at their latest tryouts.

While death and life are in the power of the tongue, how hard your Sunday School teacher picks on you Sunday morning depends entirely on how your team played on Saturday. Playful jesting abounds year-round when it comes to the sports culture in Mississippi.

And while the focus is often on winning (or at the very least, playing well), team sports, when started young, provide a fun way to learn some of the most valuable skills that will carry a child through their life.

“You learn to be a team player and you're better because of it,” said Jason Cook, Head of School and football coach at Park Place Baptist Church. “You learn biblical and real-world skills.”

Teamwork, leadership, respect for authority, sportsmanship – all of these are skills that if taught young, lay the foundation for success well into adulthood.

“There's this generation of kids who don't have a consistent authority figure,” said Cook. “Being part of team sports builds respect and sets expectations for how you'll have to deal with people in the future.”

Team sports holds the athletes accountable for their actions and their decision-making in a real-time, competitive, yet fun environment.

“You learn to deal with adversity among the players, you're held accountable, and you represent something bigger than just yourself,” said Cook. “For us at Park Place, you're representing the school and you're representing Christ.”

Cook added that learning to be a team player, learning to be accountable, and other life skills involved in sports can make you better at everything else you do.

“It's a lot more than just going out on an athletic field and performing,” said Cook. “For example, I'm a better husband because in being involved in team sports, I've learned how to deal with adversity, I've learned patience, accountability, and I've learned the ability to stick with it.”

Life is hard, and not just for adults. It seems with every generation that the troubles children face are getting even darker, but at least in team sports, you have a whole team for backup and for guidance.

“You draw from your experiences with your team when you experience things in life,” said Cook. “I've learned physical, mental, emotional, and even spiritual toughness through sports.”

Of course, the desire to win should be a driving force in any athlete, and coaches desire athletes who want to win.

“This country was founded on competition, on winning, and giving it all you've got,” said Cook. “But we need kids these days with competitive spirits that also understand that win, lose, or draw, you've given it your all and your best each and every time, without bending and breaking the rules.”

And again, this competitive spirit is a biblical stance.

“Paul said, ‘we train to run the race,'” said Cook. “We as Christians are all running our own race, and we'll get that prize if we know the Lord and we are faithful. That's something that should be instilled in young people through sports.”

The coach added that in a lot of ways, team sports can fill the gaps for learning life skills that may not be learned at school or at home, for various reasons.

“We do live in a fast-paced world,” said Cook. “You've got parents working to the bone just to make ends meet. It's important to take stock and see if there are areas in your life that can be adjusted to further prioritize that family time.”

Cook acknowledged that especially nowadays, parents do not have an easy task at hand. Children have to be provided for, cared for, grounded, well-rounded— and you have to insure all these things while also keeping a roof over their heads.

“It does require time away from your kids, but we also see parents making sacrifices or rotating which parents attend things with the kids in order to still have that valuable time with them,” said Cook.”

The old adage, “It takes a village to raise a child,” is perhaps more relevant now with today's generation but team sports help with that.

“There are parents whose schedules change constantly and they're running the rat race,” said Cook. “When a child is involved in team sports, we are able to help these parents instill these values even when they can't be there directly with their kids.”

Coaches are not intended to be proxy parents; however, they are other figures in life that helps mold a child into a well-rounded, healthy, successful adult.

“Family can't be replaced,” said Cook. “We partner with parents to provide learning opportunities for these life skills for their kids, and it's my heart's desire that parents are encouraged by that. We want to be supporting parents in raising their kids.”

Cook said that coaches aren't by any means raising kids, but through team sports, they are able to reaffirm what kids are hopefully learning at home.

“And if these skills aren't being taught at home, they'll learn them through team sports,” said Cook. “I had good, godly men as coaches in my life that worked hard and poured into me, and I still think about those lessons and what they taught me today.”

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President Biden to visit Mississippi community devastated by tornado

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1 hour ago

March 30, 2023

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As resources continue to pour into the communities impacted by the Friday tornado, President and First Lady Biden announce a visit to Rolling Fork.

President Joe Biden and First Lady Jill Biden will visit Rolling Fork, Mississippi on Friday.

There has been no word as of yet as to what other state or federal officials will be accompanying the President during his stop in the Magnolia State.

The White House released the following statement regarding the visit:

“On Friday, March 31, the President and the First Lady will travel to Rolling Fork, Mississippi. The President and the First Lady will visit with first responders, state and local officials, and communities impacted by the devastation from recent storms, survey recovery efforts, and assess what additional Federal support is needed. Additional details to follow.”

Jill and I are praying for those who have lost loved ones in the devastating tornadoes in Mississippi and those whose loved ones are missing.
I spoke with @tatereeves, @SenatorWicker, @SenHydeSmith, and @BennieGThompson to express my condolences and offer full federal support.
March 25, 2023

Sharkey, along with Carrol, Humphreys, and Monroe counties were devastated by a massive tornado that spanned a 100 mile path across the state of Mississippi on Friday. The storm decimated several small towns and left at least 25 dead.

After the storm Governor Tate Reeves issued an official State of Emergency for the communities that were impacted.

“I'm devastated by the destruction and loss of life that these storms have caused,” said Gov. Reeves. “The state of Mississippi will continue doing everything we can to marshal every resource available to support our fellow Mississippians who are in need. The state will be there to help them rebuild. We're not going anywhere and we're in it for the long haul. Please join me in praying for the family and friends of those who lost loved ones in this trying time.”

Resources have begun to pour in for residents for towns like Rolling Fork, Silver City, and Amory. The White House also approved a request by the Governor, supported by the Mississippi delegation, for individual and public assistance.

Those living in the four counties can register online at www.disasterassistance.gov or call 1-800-621-FEMA (3362) or 1-800-462-7585 (TTY) for anyone who is hearing or speech impaired.

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Online threats to kids increase but you can help

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3 hours ago

March 30, 2023

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Attorney General Lynn Fitch says the ultimate protection for teens and adolescents online starts at home.

Modern day American kids are tethered at the hip to internet usage today, specifically usage of social media. A recent Pew Research Center Study highlighted that nearly all teens in their survey pool claimed to have access to a smartphone, up from 73% in 2014. The study also highlighted that while teens are getting away from Facebook, use of TikTok, Snapchat, and Instagram are up.

DoSomething.org reported that 37% of teens claimed to have been bullied online, 60% of teens have seen online bullying but have not intervened, and only one in 10 victims will talk to a parent or loved one. Most of the time, that bullying is between teens within the same age range.

Cyberbullying is only one of the threats that teens and adolescents face online. Online sex crimes towards children, such as child pornography and sex solicitation, are on the rise as well. The Mississippi Attorney General's Office leads the state's Internet Crimes Against Children (I.C.A.C) Task Force. More than 80 law enforcement officers in Mississippi make up this task force. Even with this task force in place, Attorney General Lynn Fitch said that the ultimate protection starts at home.

Cyberbullying

One of the leading risks against children and teens on social media is the presence of cyberbullying. Statistics show that less than ten percent of kids online will share with their parents what they've actually seen or experienced, so it is important to know what cyberbullying looks like.

DoSomething.Org listed several examples, such as: posting screenshots of messages that were thought to be private, tagging someone in a post unrelated to them in order to insult them, adding mean hashtags under photos, hurtful gossip, impersonating someone online, and more.

Attorney General Fitch said there are ways to address these situations that are occurring online.

“The best way to protect your children online is to establish and maintain communication,” said Fitch. “We encourage parents to explore the Internet together as a family. Start a conversation with your kids, ask them what apps they use and work through and explore the privacy and reporting functions together.”

Attorney General Lynn Fitch

Fitch said it is especially important to address cyberbullying and create a plan with children on what they should do if they witness or experience bullying themselves.

“Remind them to keep all personal and private information offline,” she implored.

The Attorney General added that as social media has grown in popularity, so has the ability for parents to monitor their child's online activity.

“Many social media platforms allow parents to use parental control apps to monitor their children's content, and we strongly urge parents to take advantage of and use these options,” said Fitch. “There are also parental control apps that will alert parents or schools when a dangerous or harmful message is posted or sent. Apps can also alert parents if their child, for example, has demonstrated a desire for self-harm or suicide.”

Even with the presence of all of these safety features, Fitch said that time, conversations, and attention should be added to a parent's toolbox when it comes to caring for their child.

If a parent is not currently monitoring their child's online activity, here are a few signs that he or she may be bullied, according to KidsHealth.Org:

avoiding school or group gatherings
slipping grades and “acting out” in anger at home
changes in mood, behavior, sleep, or appetite
suddenly wanting to stop using the computer or device
being nervous or jumpy when getting a message, text, or email
avoiding discussions about computer or phone activities

If bullying is suspected, parents should open communication between their child, the parents of the child involved, the school and, if needed, law enforcement. Offer support and care for your child and walk them through how to block their offender online. Keep records of the offending messages and consider seeking the services of a therapist to help your child move beyond the bullying and abuse.

Online Sex Crimes Against Children

Predators often use the internet to target, groom, and sexually harass or exploit children and teens. It is almost scary how easy it can happen– a person poses as someone that can be trusted online. They build a rapport with your child, they establish trust, and then they request pictures of a sexual nature or a meetup. Often, a child or teen may be embarrassed that this is happening, or may not even understand that it is wrong, and may not tell their parents.

“We have all warned our children never to get into a car with a stranger, we need to share the same warning about meeting “online friends” in person,” said Attorney General Fitch. “But you don't have to meet a person in order for a crime to take place. Images posted online will remain on the internet permanently. Make sure your child knows that anyone who asks a child to engage in sexually explicit activity should be reported to a trusted adult and local law enforcement.”

If a child or teen is groomed to trust someone online and sends sexually explicit pictures of themselves to someone or agrees to meet, it can lead to emotional damage at the least and sexual assault, kidnapping, and/or human trafficking. This isn't just something you see on television. Sex crimes against children online are happening in the Magnolia State, and it is a growing crime.

“In 2022, the (Mississippi) I.C.A.C. Task Force received 3,047 CyberTips, resulting in 75 arrests and 35 convictions. As of February 14th, the Task Force has already received 499 tips in 2023,” said Fitch. “My office is involved from the moment we hear about it. We receive tips sent to the CyberTipline. Also, local law enforcement partners and schools often share information, and we investigate reports made by concerned citizens.”

What can be done?

If you see or experience criminal behavior, report it to the CyberTipline at www.cybertipline.org or 800-843-5678, as well as law enforcement.

“The CyberTipline is run by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, another AGO partner, and those tips come directly to our office,” said Fitch.

Be proactive. Start regular conversations with your child about online behaviors and safety. Download apps to help monitor their online usage.

For help starting the conversation with your kids, visit www.missingkids.org/netsmartz.

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Increase in funding for Early Learning Collaboratives approved by Legislature

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March 30, 2023

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Currently, Mississippi has 35 state-funded early learning collaboratives comprised of school districts, Head Start agencies, childcare centers, and private non-profit organizations.

Authored by State Representative Kent McCarty (R), House Bill 817 increases the minimum funding levels for each student enrolled in full-day Early Learning Collaboratives to $2,500 and half-day programs to $1,250.

Current law states that funding should be provided to ELCs on the basis of $2,150 per student in a full-day program and $1,075 per student in a half-day program proposed in the collaborative's approved application.

During the 2023 Mississippi Legislative session, the Senate adopted an amendment to House Bill 817 which added a repealer. The conference report signed by all conferees recommended the Senate recede from its amendment.

The conference report for H.B. 817 was adopted by the House on Sunday and by the Senate on Wednesday.

Effective with the 2013-2014 school year, the Mississippi State Department of Education (MDE) established a voluntary prekindergarten program, which would be a collaboration among the entities providing prekindergarten programs including Head Start, licensed childcare facilities and licensed public, parochial and private school prekindergarten programs.

Under this program, eligible entities may submit an application for funds to:

Defray the cost of additional and/or more qualified teaching staff, appropriate educational materials and equipment and to improve the quality of educational experiences offered to four-year-old children in early care and education programs.
Extend developmentally appropriate education services at such programs currently serving four-year-old children to include practices of high quality instruction.
Administer, implement, monitor and evaluate the programs.
Defray the cost of professional development and age-appropriate child assessment.

MDE shows that there are currently 35 state-funded early learning collaboratives comprised of school districts, Head Start agencies, childcare centers, and private non-profit organizations in the state of Mississippi.

According to Mississippi First, the state legislature has increased its commitment to the program five times, raising the funds to $4 million in 2016, then to $6.5 million in 2018, to nearly $6.7 million in 2019, $16 million in 2021, and $24 million in 2022.

“In 2022, in addition to keeping the rate increase, the legislature gave pre-K two additional gifts in the budget—an overall funding amount of $24M, which is an $8M increase, and a coaching line item of $3.25M, which is a little over double last year's amount,” Mississippi First explained. “These budget amounts will allow the state-funded pre-K program to reach 25% of four-year-olds in Mississippi and provide pre-K teachers the support to ensure quality.”

TIMELINE OF STATE-FUNDED PRE-K IN MISSISSIPPI (Mississipi First)

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