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Look for the “why” when engaging in disagreement

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“Bought sense is better than borrowed sense” lives in my memory, rent-. I've always cringed at it because, at every stage of life, some lessons have been costly to learn.

At the Alluvial Collective, we show up to the office, on the screen, or in a community with one overarching challenge: to create or deepen the connections that will collective thriving. That is our “For what.” We get to show up with wisdom purchased over our organization's last 25 years of work and with wisdom borrowed from many generations and traditions. In most traditions, self-reflection and stories reveal the path to where we should go and how we should travel.

As you engage in the National Week of Conversation, here are a couple of stories and a few to help you show up for each other, our communities, and our country.

What Do You Need

The first story emerges from a book called “Getting To Yes,” about negotiating.

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Two people were arguing over an orange, and after some time, they decided to split it in half, feeling that equal parts were fair, like in elementary school. Before splitting the orange, they never asked each other the reason the other wanted it. As it turns out, one wanted the orange peel to flavor a cake, and the other wanted the orange's “meat” to eat.

In another story, an arriving house guest is deeply offended by their host's demand that they remove their shoes upon entering their home. The visit goes off the rails and probably off the porch, too.

Each of these stories reminds you of tensions and dilemmas that are all too familiar in our families, towns, and – for me – our leadership discourse.  We have notions about what the other person, or people, want, but at critical points, we need more humanizing insight into what makes it essential to them.

The Cost of Wisdom

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In the second story, the home's foyer had a large rug on its floor that had been in the family for generations. Understanding that, I would have offered to remove my shoes.

We benefit from being curious about the interests, the “for what” the other person engages with, rather than just the “what” or their position. It may seem inefficient, but it pales to the value curiosity brings to relationships. Good relationships are win-win; our team leans on telling and hearing stories to build relationships. They are the wellspring of “for whats” and “whys.”

The truthful stories that your neighbor or coworker tells to you and themselves comprise reality as they see it.  Your stories teach your in-laws and teammates history from your the learned or experienced vantage point. Dialogue and stories make our actions and attitudes make sense.  This is where trust begins to form.

Dialogue over Debates and Diatribes.

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As you begin your week, remember that how we engage matters as much as why. Diatribes and speeches don't make us good neighbors, and debates require someone to lose. We like authentic connections and hearing familiar themes in the stories of others. This week, open and honest dialogue is the strategy; to thrive together should always be the goal. We've paid too much for everything else.

Talk more; proclaim less. It's one of our mottos here at The Center for Practical Ethics (TCPE). Put another way, we might say our goal is to foster conversations rather than diatribes. This task is more difficult than most realize. What we know as ethicists is that merely having conversations isn't enough. There's a wide variety of skills needed for fruitful dialogue to take place, and some are harder to by than others.

The ideal conversation partner is curious and humble, able to actively listen, knowledgeable about his or her own positions, familiar with basic principles of logical argument, charitable when interpreting claims, and—most importantly—willing to be wrong. Our work centers around equipping with these skills and helping them navigate the complex ethical issues within our society's most contentious disagreements.

This year, National Week of Conversations (NWoC) coincided with Ethics Week here at the University of Mississippi (UM). Many of our events are conversation-based because dialogue is the best way to evaluate the ideas of others and open ourselves up to new information and interpretation of facts, while gaining a better understanding of our own views.

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Two of our events in particular are worth examining more closely to see why NWoC and the work we do at TCPE are critical for sustaining civil society and the myriad public goods we all take for granted. First is our signature Just Conversations . Students are placed in small groups and given a couple of ethical dilemmas to discuss. Trained student moderators guide the discussion to point out important aspects of the dilemmas, such as logical fallacies, analysis of stakeholders, ethical concepts and assumptions, and varying methods to achieve goals. Students often discover they agree with others—on the dilemma outcome and the details—far more than they expected.

Second, we have invited free speech scholar Sigal Ben-Porath to give a talk about her new book Cancel Wars: How Universities Can Foster Free Speech, Promote Inclusion, and Renew Democracy. Ben-Porath contends that universities are laboratories of democracy where students must learn to engage with disagreement. If the university is to be a place where truth is discovered, it must take seriously its historic social and educational obligation to train students in the skills needed for civil discourse and critical thinking. Her work is especially relevant in our ever more polarized times.

What these events demonstrate is that conversations—that is, engaged and fruitful conversations—must take place at all levels. Students must learn to talk to students just as much as faculty must learn to talk to faculty and administrators to administrators. What's more, these groups must talk to each other because while each of us have a role within academia (faculty, staff, student, dean, vice chancellor, etc.), we are also all citizens who work and live together.

Policies must be made, votes cast, businesses founded, churches attended, friendships established, and life lived. TCPE focuses on the skills of civil discourse by providing opportunities to cultivate those skills through Ethics Week, and highlights conversations that ask us to reflect on the role of universities as part of the NWoC.

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Join us at Noon on Friday, April 19 for a VIRTUAL lunch and learn session exploring tools to make us better listeners, and in turn, better equipped to engage in meaningful conversations across differences.

The session will be led by Dr. Graham Bodie, professor and Interim Chair of the Department of and Communication in the School of Journalism and New Media at the University of Mississippi.

This event is free and open to the public. Register to receive more information.

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On this day in 1964

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mississippitoday.org – Jerry Mitchell – 2024-05-02 07:00:00

May 2, 1964

Moore is holding a 1964 photograph of him and his younger brother, Charles, shortly before his brother was kidnapped and killed by Klansmen, along with Henry Hezekiah Dee. Credit: David Ridgen.

Henry Hezekiah Dee and Charles Eddie Moore, two 19-year-old Black Americans, were simply to get a ride back home. Instead, Klansmen abducted them, took them to the Homochitto National Forest, where they beat the pair and then drowned them in the Mississippi

When their bodies were found in an old part of the river, FBI agents initially thought they had found the bodies of three missing workers, James Chaney, Andrew Goodman and Michael Schwerner. 

Thanks to the work of Moore's brother, Thomas, and Canadian filmmaker David Ridgen, federal authorities reopened the case in 2005. Two years later, a federal jury convicted James Ford Seale. He received three sentences and died in prison. 

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Ridgen did a on the case for the CBC , “Somebody Knows Something.”

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Lt. Gov. Delbert Hosemann shuts down House Republican idea to let voters decide Medicaid expansion

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mississippitoday.org – Taylor Vance – 2024-05-01 20:01:39

After House Republicans asked Senate leaders to agree to a proposal that would place Medicaid expansion on November's statewide ballot, Senate leader Lt. Gov. Delbert Hosemann said the idea had no legs in his chamber and added that expansion talks were likely done for the year.

House Speaker Jason White, a Republican from West, announced the idea in a statement Wednesday night and pointed out it had become clear over the last few days that House and Senate Republicans were still far from agreement over the best way to expand Medicaid coverage.

The bill narrowly escaped death on Wednesday afternoon until House Democrats forced a procedural vote that granted everyone more time to find compromise.

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“This session proved that a consensus has formed and we all share the same goal: to provide access to low-income Mississippians,” White said. “Creating a referendum for this issue is a clear direction forward. We hope that our colleagues in the Senate will take this opportunity to finally hear from the electorate once and for all.”

About an hour after White announced the referendum idea, Hosemann poured cold water on the idea with a statement of his own.

“We had some discussions with senators about the possibility of a non-binding referendum on the ballot and the idea was not well received,” Hosemann said. “We are disappointed in the outcome this year, but value the discussions which occurred this session — the first time this has seriously considered healthcare reform in our .

“I remain committed to finding ways to increase access for working Mississippians who otherwise do not have the resources for a simple check-up or an extended hospital stay,” Hosemann continued. “A strong work requirement, with necessary exceptions, is a bottom line for many Senators. We look forward to continuing the conversation on access to healthcare in the future.”

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READ MORE: Lawmakers buy one more day to reach Medicaid expansion compromise

The House's full proposal was not made available on Wednesday night, but White's statement said the proposed referendum would be two-fold: Voters would decide if they think Medicaid should be expanded to the working poor and if the program should include work requirements for recipients.  

House Democratic caucus leadership supported the House Republican effort, saying in a statement Wednesday night that if the language in the House's referendum is “very clear” and allows working Mississippians to get the “ we know that they need,” then they would likely the new proposal. 

“We are about the opportunity to finally give the people of this state a chance to voice what we know to be — that they want this, and they want it as quickly as possible,” read a statement from Reps. Robert Johnson and Daryl Porter, the House Democratic leaders.

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The statewide ballot referendum idea was seen late Wednesday as a renewed chance for Republicans to find an expansion agreement — something that had become elusive during the first legislative session that expansion was earnestly considered.

At the heart of the Senate and House disagreement was a requirement that mandated Medicaid recipients work — a provision that the federal had blocked in 13 other states.

House and Senate Republican negotiators earlier in the agreed to a deal that would expand Medicaid only if a strict work requirement was approved by the federal government. House Republicans, who had previously proposed an expansion program that would go into effect even without federal approval of a work requirement, caved late Monday and agreed to the Senate Republicans' demand to include the make-or-break work requirement provision.

But House Democrats, who had for weeks vowed to not support any expansion plan that included a work requirement, fulfilled that promise on Wednesday and threatened to vote against the Republican bill on the House floor. The Democrats' dug-in position against the bill would likely have killed the proposal, which needed a three-fifths majority vote to pass.

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Rep. Bryant Clark, D-Ebenezer, said he was one of 29 Democrats who would not vote for the agreement as it stood on Wednesday. He said he was unsure whether he would support the issue going to a statewide referendum.

“I think we as a Legislature should do it — that's what people hired us to do,” Clark said. “I wouldn't be just totally opposed to that idea, but sometimes the devil is in the details. What would be put before the people? Would it be a clean expansion proposal, or something else? I am 85% sure the citizens of Mississippi would pass something that is a clean Medicaid expansion proposal.”

Note: This article will be updated.

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Lawmakers buy one more day to reach Medicaid expansion compromise

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mississippitoday.org – Geoff Pender, Bobby Harrison, Taylor Vance, Sophia Paffenroth and Adam Ganucheau – 2024-05-01 17:34:04

Facing a late Wednesday deadline, the House and Senate procedurally voted to give themselves at least one more day to deliberate a proposal that could make Mississippi the 41st to expand under the Affordable Care Act.

House and Senate Republican negotiators earlier in the week agreed to a deal that would expand Medicaid only if a strict work requirement for recipients was approved by the federal . House Republicans, who had previously proposed an expansion program that would go into effect even without federal approval of a work requirement, caved late Monday and agreed to the Senate Republicans' demand to include the make-or-break work requirement provision.

But House Democrats, who had for weeks vowed to not any expansion plan that included a work requirement, fulfilled that promise on Wednesday and threatened to vote against the Republican bill on the House floor. The Democrats' dug-in position against the bill would likely have killed the proposal, which needed a three-fifths majority vote to pass.

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With the federal Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services under the Biden administration unlikely to approve Mississippi's Medicaid expansion plan with a work requirement, Senate Republican have expressed optimism that Donald Trump would be reelected and that he would approve Mississippi's plan.

However, the realpolitik is that Trump has loudly voiced his opposition to Medicaid expansion, and his approval of Mississippi's work requirement would usher expansion in for the Magnolia state over the wishes of a Republican governor (Tate Reeves) whom he supports. When he was president, the Trump administration approved Medicaid work requirements for some states, but only as a means of limiting participation where it had already been expanded, not to help a state implement expansion.

Waiting on approval from CMS under either Biden or Trump could keep Mississippi's expansion of coverage as it now stands in limbo indefinitely.

“We will vote for Medicaid expansion,” Rep. Robert Johnson III, the House minority leader, said after the recommittal on Wednesday. “This is not Medicaid expansion. At least we got a do-over.”

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Johnson said that shy of going back to the original House position — or removing the work requirement the Senate demanded — House Democrats want to language that says the state would reapply for work requirements each year while expansion remains in limbo until such time as a work requirement is approved. He said the Democrats told the Republican leadership that they would agree to the work requirement, but not reapplying on an annual basis for the work requirement wavier. Instead, he said the state should apply once for the work requirement and if it is rejected by federal officials the Legislature should act to remove the requirement.

“We're not saying we are against the work requirement,” he said, adding House Democrats oppose it because it would keep Medicaid from being expanded,

Johnson added, “We're saying fine, we will try that once and show you it will not work, then we move on (removing the work requirement and expanding the program).”

When it was clear the House Democrats' dissension might kill the expansion program, House Republicans moved to recommit the bill to conference committee. The Senate Republicans followed suit a few minutes later, effectively extending the deadline for a final plan to be hammered out between House and Senate negotiators until 8 p.m. Thursday.

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House and Senate Republican leaders declined to comment about what they may bring to the negotiations or what the next few hours may look like. House Democrats claimed a small victory and reiterated their desire to pass an expansion plan that would actually go into effect and health coverage to an estimated 200,000 Mississippians.

As news of the recommittal spread quickly through the Capitol on Wednesday afternoon, many people floated the notion of placing a Medicaid expansion issue on a statewide ballot, where voters could mandate what they wanted lawmakers to do.

“I have heard about that, but it would confuse voters with a work requirement,” Johnson said, adding he would support placing Medicaid expansion without a work requirement on the ballot.

Rep. Bryant Clark, D-Ebenezer, said he was one of 29 Democrats who would not vote for the agreement as it stood on Wednesday. He said he is unsure whether he would support the issue going to a statewide referendum.

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“I think we as a Legislature should do it — that's what people hired us to do,” Clark said. “I wouldn't be just totally opposed to that idea, but sometimes the devil is in the details. What would be put before the people? Would it be a clean expansion proposal, or something else? I am 85% sure the citizens of Mississippi would pass something that is a clean Medicaid expansion proposal.”

As the extraordinary played out on Wednesday, dozens of clergy and other citizens came to the Capitol to express their support of expansion. Many Capitol attendees specifically said they did not support the compromise plan that included the work requirement.

“There are people in Mississippi who are sick, hurting, in pain and broken,” said the Rev. Dawn Douglas Flowers, a minister at Parkway Hills United Methodist Church. “We have a way to enter into that brokenness and offer healing right away. I hope lawmakers can find a way to compromise and allow Medicaid expansion to happen now because what they've come up with is just a delay. The work requirement will not allow us to get help to people who need help . We can't just kick the can down the road any longer.”

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